OK - I wrote him an email (I was, unfortunately, too nice again - I really need to work on that) which I will post here. He wrote me back...and I will post *it* here, as well. My comments will be in italiacs.....
But first, please note - to the males that read this: My snarky comments are NOT aimed a ya'll, nor do ya'll (seem) to fall into the same category as Mr. Clueless caveman here. I'm still trying to be nice...damn Southern upbringing!
So, without further ado...( My email to himCollapse )
So, I send it. He doesn't even waste the time to actually *read* it, I think - I get a response barely an hour later.
( His responseCollapse )
Anyway - it's hopefully over. He's so clueless, it's not even funny - and I don't think he'll ever learn. J. thinks he's in the "clueless but safe" category......I dunno. His total defensiveness and blaming me (in a passive/agressive sort of way) is just...weird.