Herself surprized me yesterday - she loaded the dishwasher for me! Granted, I had to tell her where *everything* went (more on that later...I'm researching. I think she doesn't have ADD..I think it's something else. I've suspected it for a while now.....:sigh:) - even when she'd already put one of the same thing (ie: Fork) in there. :bigger sigh: At least she was helping!